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User:blessedmess (681150)
Folder of Towels, Griller of Burgers
Name:blessedmess
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Bio:I have a big butt and I cannot lie.

No, really, my butt is big and I don't ever lie.

I am a big ol fat gal who is blessed enough to be born, raised and still live in the South. The deep South, where we still say YALL and give broken down motorists a ride.

I try to live an honest, decent and earth friendly existence. I try not to judge others and expect in return not to be judged. I have STRONG opinions and am never afraid to express them. I give others respect in regard to their opinions, but am not usually open to change (for myself). Not sure if that is a good or a bad thing, but it is definitely me.

I have a low tolerance for foolishness. I detest racism, abortion, ignorance, whiney people, dishonesty, people who cheat on their spouses (calm down polyamorists, I don't mean YOU) and people who abuse children. If you want to get me ranting, any of those are a good place to start.
Life is all about PERSONAL RESPONSIBILITY.

I love God and my family with every ounce of me. I have a strong sense of family and love tradition. I was influenced greatly by my great-grandmother who passed away three years ago. I was extremely blessed to have her as long as I did.

Right now, I am a stay at home mommy and a volunteer at my son's school. My life has been tumultuous, happy, sad, fabulous and down right rotten at times, but that is just what it is. It is MY life, and has made me who I am. There is not much of it I would change if I could.

I am not a beauty queen, definitely not a "normal" sized person, nor do I fit any stereotypes of Southern women. I weigh between 300 and 340. According to the season and what I just ate. SO IF YOU DON'T like fat people, move along NOW, because there is nothing here for you. And don't you dare email me to say that you don't like fat people, because while my body is round, my tongue is most definitely sharp! I am more a Southern GONG than a belle! :)

I am a good listener and normally give some pretty decent advice. I think everyone has a story to tell, and I love hearing about other people's lives. I am very respectful of other people's rights and I am not judgemental.

And don't be afraid because I say I am a Christian. I have yet to thwack anyone over the head with a Bible. I am not THAT KIND of a Christian. My decisions and opinions are what works FOR ME, not what I try to force others to do for themselves.

I am the absolute self-proclaimed QUEEN OF THRIFT. I NEVER pay full-price for anything if I can help it.

I will probably be writing tons of stories about my little guy, who will soon be the grand ol age of 7!! My life will probably appear to be mundane and boring, but I have had it both ways and believe me, boring is not so bad!

Don't be put off by my strong opinions and don't be afraid to express yours. The only opinions I cannot tolerate are from folks who straddle the fence! I totally respect and appreciate people who know what they believe, aren't afraid to stand up for it, and who can respect my opinions as well.

Oh yeah, and I have insane curly hair.
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Interests:103: 50's music, 80's music, animal rescue, ann rule, anne geddes, anti wls, anything dipped in ranch, babies, bargains, bbw, beach boys, bingo, casinos, cataplexy, cats, cattiness, childrearing, children, christianity, coffee ice cream, cold cases, comedy, conjoined twins, conversation, cooking, coupons, court tv, d.i.d, dancing, days of our lives, daysofourlives, did, dishes, dissociative identity disorder, dool, dumpster diving, dwarfs, ebay, eighties music, epilepsy, family, fat acceptance, fat activism, fat activist, forensics, free samples, free stuff, freebies, gadgets, garage sales, goodwill, junk collecting, kids, king of the hill, kitchen gadgets, last comic standing, laughing, law, learning, little people, m.p.d, mentoring, miracles, mpd, multiple personality disorder, mysteries, naafa, narcolepsy, news, no wls for me, parenting, patricia cornwell, people, people watching, personal responsibility, provigil, psoriasis, ranch, ranch dressing, reading, reading., realitytv, rebates, recipe books, recipes, refunding, religion, salvation army, sjs, stevens-johnson syndrome, survivor, teaching, that 70's show, thrift, thrift stores, thrifting, toby keith, topomax, unsolved mysteries, volunteering, wit, writing, yard sales
Schools:None listed
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